Firebird1
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39–Divorced–Sandton (Lonehill), Gauteng, South Africa
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About Her
| Country of Origin: | South Africa |
| Current Location: | Sandton (Lonehill), Gauteng, South Africa |
| Gender: | Female |
| Age: | 39 |
| Star Sign: | Leo |
| Height: | 174cm (5' 8.5") |
| Body Type: | Curvaceous |
| Looks: | Attractive |
| Hair Colour: | Red |
| Eye Colour: | Green |
| Ethnicity: | White/Caucasian |
| Home Language: | English |
| Other Languages: | Afrikaans |
| Religion: | Spiritual, but not religious |
| Marital Status: | Divorced |
| Relationship Types: | Just penpals; Activity partners; Friends |
| Have Children: | No |
| Want Children: | No |
| Eating Habits: | Eat healthily |
| Smoking Habits: | Non-Smoker |
| Drinking Habits: | Occasional Drinker |
| Education: | Some University / College |
| Occupation: | Self-employed |
| Income: | Comfortable |
Her Narratives
Why should you get to know Firebird1?
I am a plain, sincere, generous and honest girl, who enjoys making people happy.I believe in chemistry and connecting with people on a spiritual and intellectual level. When I am in a relationship I give my all.I enjoy the outdoors, nature, animals, exploring new places, movies and dancing.I am artistic, although slowly but surely time and lack of practice must be eroding that talent. Nope! I still have it! Started sketching again! I am independent within myself and financially, grossly competitive and am unlikely to date a guy that I cannot look up to or aspire to be like. I enjoy being alone with my babies and am not desperate to have a man in my life. This in itself allows one to pick and choose, it's awesome. I am outspoken, despite the consequences and not a sweet cupcake available on most profiles. I can be perceived to be hard / cold / stressed, they probably right. Can your ego deal with that? However, if I am treated with respect and patience, then I have a soft centre and will go to the end of the earth for you.
I believe that we too need to progress internally, that one should not stagnate, but explore one's inner self, identifying the source of actions and reactions. I do not profess to be better than others and hate seeing that in others, especially when money or ego is the motivator. I am not here to impress, I am brutally honest and if I create a reaction, I have been successful.
I am not looking to get married again, been divorced ten years now and the last person that had that opportunity has now moved on, as hard as that is to accept. I will consider a partner or exclusive boyfriend however.
Everyday we are presented with choices, what we do with them is what makes us and those around us better people and our lives a better place....or not, the choice is ours!
I believe in giving back, paying forward, it is a powerful and wonderful experience that makes life special for a moment.
She describes her ideal match thus:
How do you deal with confrontation? Can you exist on your own or must you always have a human with you? Have you lived ALONE, for more than a month? Have you hopped from one relationship to the next your whole life? Are you needy? Are you desperate to be with a woman, no matter who and not for who she is? Do you play games? Are you looking for a one night stand, or a "friends with benefits relationship"? Do you think that you are better than the rest of us? Do you know who you are and where you going? Are you impatient? Are you mentally stable? Are you just out of a marriage or a relationship? Can you handle me having my own business and working my ass off? Let's go through the above questions together, 1 by 1.
I am looking for a sincere, honest, genuine friend, who I can connect with both physically, intellectually and spiritually. A person who knows what he wants, is grounded and not afraid to go out and get it.Someone who can be supportive when required. Who is happy in his skin, not afraid of commitment and showing and receiving affection.Someone who enjoys his space as much as he enjoys our time together.Important that he loves animals, especially dogs and the outdoors.Has linen on his bed and changes it at least once a week. I am turned off by men that shave their arms and legs, or are border line effeminite, I like my men to be MEN grrr! Not too thin not too fat. For me a deciding and important factor, which may sound shallow, is, can i wake up next to this man for the rest of my life? Is he pleasing to the eye and heart?
Can I please ask, where have all the men with balls gone to? Why do women have to conform to a standard and heaven help them if they let themselves go, yet men can get fat, have bad breath and dirty, long, dirty finger nails etc. No I am not a yes girl and don't want a yes man, coward or weak person.
I won't reply to you if you don't display a photo, want a threesome are married or involved.
About Her Ideal Match
| Country of Origin: | Anywhere in the World |
| Current Location: | Anywhere in the World |
| Gender: | Male |
| Age Range: (Decidedly important) | 30 - 44 |
| Star Sign: (Non-negotiable) | Aries; Gemini; Cancer; Leo; Sagittarius; Aquarius |
| Height: (Non-negotiable) | 174cm (5' 8.5") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller |
| Body Type: (Non-negotiable) | Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds |
| Looks: (Decidedly important) | Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive |
| Hair Colour: (Non-negotiable) | Dark Brown; Black; Greying; Shaved |
| Eye Colour: (Non-negotiable) | Hazel; Brown; Black |
| Has Photo: | Non-negotiable |
| Ethnicity: (Non-negotiable) | Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed |
| Home Language: (Decidedly important) | English |
| Other Languages: | Any |
| Religion: (Non-negotiable) | Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
| Marital Status: (Non-negotiable) | Single; Divorced; Widowed |
| Have Children: | Any |
| Want Children: (Non-negotiable) | No; Maybe |
| Eating Habits: | Any |
| Smoking Habits: (Decidedly important) | Non-Smoker; Occasional Smoker |
| Drinking Habits: (Non-negotiable) | Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker |
| Education: (Non-negotiable) | Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral |
| Occupation: | Any |
| Income: (Decidedly important) | Enough; Mortgage slave; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
More About Her
| Hair Style: | Medium |
| Facial Hair: | I have a full beard |
| Eyesight: | I wear glasses |
| Disabilities: | I have none |
| Body Art: | I don't have any |
| Personality Traits: | Cautious; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic |
| Sense of Humour: | I don't have one |
| Valued Qualities: | Charity; Compassion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance; Faithfulness; Chemistry; Sexiness |
| Intelligence: | Intellectually Challenged |
| Ruled by: | The head |
| Party Behaviour: | An impartial observer |
| Pastimes of choice: | Playing with my pet |
| Music Preferences: | Alternative; Dance / Disco; Electronic / Techno / Rave; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
| Books: | Self-help |
| TV Habits: | I watch a few favourite shows each week |
| TV Shows: | Documentaries; Dramas; Sci-Fi; Soap operas; Action/Adventure; Nature/Wildlife |
| Movie Frequency: | Once or twice a month |
| Movie Preferences: | Action; Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Romance; Sci-Fi |
| Take Drugs: | Never |
| Current Relationship: | I'm single |
| Date Activities: | A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
| Sport Involvement: | Not involved at all |
| Sports: | Birdwatching; Horse Riding; Hiking; Squash; Swimming; Walking; White water rafting |
| Interests: | Business news; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Painting; Photography; Reading |
| Pace of Life: | Hectic |
| Time at Work: | I always put in overtime |
| Dining Out: | I eat out a few times a month |
| Cuisine: | Chinese; German; Indian; Japanese; Italian; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vegetarian |
| Family Size: | I've got a brother and a sister |
| Family Closeness: | We're very close |
| Time Online: | I'm on for an hour or two a day |
| Willing to Relocate: | I'm unlikely to move |
| Favourite Colour: | Silver |
| Animals: | I love my pet(s) |
| Pets (Have): | Dog(s) |
| Pets (Like): | Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
| Turn-ons: | Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence |
| Turn-offs: | Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm |
| Religious Attendance: | Never |
| Politics: | I have no interest in politics |
| Honesty: | Extremely |
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