In Her Own Words
About Her
I am an interesting and mature lady who is self assured, knows what she wants and who has her priorities straight . I am a good listener and can be an exceptional friend if given a chance. I am satisfied with my life at this stage but I am looking for a friend without any romantic/sexual expectations (although there might always be the possibility that a friendship could become more than just that - but I do not want to complicate my life too much at this stage), who can accept me for who I am, accept the way I think and who will not mind me speaking my mind. This friend must love animals and have a way with children as I have a daughter who is the light of my life. I am not interested in quick one night stands - so please - no chancers!
Ek moet ook dalk net noem dat ek nie 'n Barbiepoppie is nie - ek is 'n regte mens/vrou, met gevoelens, opinies, sienings, beginsels en 'n eie, onafhanklike en vol lewe. Ja, ek stamp ook my kar, sukkel met die rekenaar, het dae waar my hormone skaakmat skree, ens., ens., ens. - ek is definitief nie perfek nie! Ek hou van mans wat intelligent kan gesels, en sou graag wou voel dat ek spesiaal vir iemand is of iemand spesiaal wou hê wie ek kan bederf. Ek is egter nie desperaat op soek nie en wag nie vir die ridder op 'n wit perd om my uit my "haglike" omstandighede te kom red nie (en is dan vir ewig dankbaar nie!!!). As dit egter gebeur dat so 'n ridder opdaag wat my huidiglike vol lewe verder kom verryk - wonderlik! Skryf vir my as jy my regtig wil leer ken; stap 'n pad saam met my, want 'n vriendskap kan dalk die beginpunt wees van 'n lewenslange romantiese verbintenis.
My motto in life is: LIVE as well as you can,
LAUGH as often as life allows it, and
LOVE as much as humanly possible.
If you think you can cope with a lady-friend like me and you have the qualities I am looking for (or if you think I have the qualities you are looking for) - please contact me. You might just be surprised at what you may find.
About Her Ideal Match
An honest, relaxed, intelligent and fun-loving man with lots of humour, who loves animals, loves children, likes reading, who does not mind sharing, loves music, art, the stage, food, etc. A person who can take enough time to get to know me as a friend first before expecting more, who are interested in even the mundane stuff in life. A person that is trustworthy and dependable.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Bloemfontein, Free State, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star Sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
161cm (5' 3.4") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Teacher / Professor | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
54 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Celibacy; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Music Channels; Sci-Fi; Soap operas; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Making Music; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Shopping; Singing; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Dancesport; Gymnastics; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
At home with a good book |
Feelings about using Dating South Africa: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
