In Her Own Words
About Her
Spur of the moment decisions are the best....that is why I'm here right.
I'm a boertjie and love animals. Hope you do too.
I would like to meet ppl with the same interests and to go on tour to where ever the wind blows us. He must at least be able to have a decent conversation. No one nite stands please coz you gonna waste your time
I'd prefer to meet face to face and see if the chemistry is there.
Thanks and happy hunting
About Her Ideal Match
A decent, honest manly MAN with a happy face and no hidden agendas.
"Are you a nice guy or a good man?
A nice guy will do nice things with unspoken expectations attached. He will take a woman on a date, expecting to get something in return. A good man does things without expectation of a payoff, but because he is acting in accordance with his core values. Should he receive a return--it's simply a bonus.
A nice guy fears rejection and so he seeks validation. A good man is self-validated and does not tie his worth to whether he is accepted or rejected.
A nice guy will smother his current love interest and will make her the center of his universe. A good man will give appropriate attention to a lover without becoming overbearing or taking over her life.
A nice guy will discard anything and anyone that is no longer useful to him. A good man will respect another persons' inherent dignity and treat them kindly even when they no longer have a role or purpose in his life-
A nice guy will do anything to avoid hurting someone's feelings while a good man realizes that sometimes, the kindest thing one can do for another may initially be hurtful, but will eventually be helpful.
A nice guy will say what others want to hear while a good man will say what others need to hear.
At the core, the major difference between a nice guy and a good man is that a nice guy is concerned with appearances and etiquette. The good man is concerned with character and morality.
The good man is committed to his development and is willing to do the work to become a good man. The good man realizes that he is not going to get there by taking shortcuts.
So, "Are you a nice guy or a good man?
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Boksburg, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Other | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
44 - 69 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
165cm (5' 5.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Silly; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Yellow |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
It's just OK |
Books: |
Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Mystery; Romance; Westerns |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Painting; Photography |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Camping; Fishing; Golf; Gymnastics; Rugby; Snorkeling |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; German; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Disorganised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Flirting; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Stilt house in the jungle |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Dating South Africa: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
