In Her Own Words
About Her
A little bit of sunshine, a good sense of humour, and always ready for a great conversation.
I am a loving mother, an independent woman, but I have not ruled out finding someone who can make life even more enjoyable - preferably someone who enjoys building a meaningful life. I keep busy with work, family, and personal goals, but I always make time for good books, travel, new places, and the people I care about.
Family is important to me, and I value kindness, loyalty, honesty, and genuine connection. I am happy with my life, but I would love to meet someone special to share laughter, adventures, thoughtful conversations, and a little playful flirting.
I am drawn to a kind, dependable man who is emotionally available and knows how to communicate. I am not looking for games or confusing signals—just someone sincere whose actions match his words. A man who can make me laugh and handle a little teasing would certainly earn extra points.
I believe the best relationships begin naturally, with friendship, comfort, and plenty of laughter. Could you be the kind of person who makes ordinary days feel a little more exciting?
About Her Ideal Match
I’m looking for a genuinely good man: kind, emotionally mature, dependable, affectionate, and honest. He should know what he wants, though I don’t expect him to have life figured out. I’m still occasionally standing at the fridge hoping dinner organises itself.
Friendship comes first. I want someone to laugh with until my stomach hurts, have real conversations, share comfortable silences, and be myself. Make me laugh without being cruel, communicate without disappearing, and talk beyond “lol,” you’re already impressive.
I admire someone supportive, loyal, emotionally available, and consistent. Be my confidant, and partner through good times and hard seasons. Let’s encourage each other, share responsibilities, and stay a team. In return I bring loyalty, affection, honesty, moral support, and confident opinions.
He should appreciate a woman who is independent, ambitious, and comfortable alone. -But thoughtful gestures, deeper conversations, spontaneous treats, and showing up with food after a long day earn bonus points. Extra credit for remembering details and knowing when I need a hug, not a 5-point plan.
I’d love someone who enjoys travel, new experiences, good books, and conversations deeper than “How was your day?” Make ordinary moments special, and debate dinner without a crisis.
Romance is in the little things: checking in, remembering what matters, private jokes, reassurance, and making each other feel valued. Grand gestures are nice, but consistency is sexier and requires no assembly.
I’m not looking for perfect — even perfect leaves the toilet seat up. I want a man with a good heart, genuine intentions, good humor, and willingness to build something real.
If you’re kind, loyal, available, communicative, and funny, we may have something worth exploring. Bonus if you travel well, take decent photos, share snacks, and know “ride or die” doesn’t mean you drive everywhere.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Bloemfontein (Botshabelo), Free State, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
42 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
157cm (5' 1.8") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
Sesotho | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; Sepedi; Tswana; Xhosa; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Free State, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
42 - 55 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
159cm (5' 2.6") - 191cm (6' 3.2") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Other | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Black/African; Coloured; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English; Sepedi; Sesotho; Swati; Tswana; Venda; Xhosa; Zulu; Other | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium; Long; Straight; Curly; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Red |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Mystery; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Painting; Pottery; Reading; Sewing; Singing |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Baseball; Boxing; Bungee jumping; Chess; Dancesport; Darts; Hiking; Running; Soccer; Softball; Volleyball |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like them at the zoo |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Dating South Africa: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |